crazy little thing [date night]

the application of this week's big idea (crazy love) is to go on a date night with our significant other's and ask a question in essentially a melding of these 3 bullets:

• perspective of the wife: "this is something that is important to me, that i want to be important to you" (fill in the blank)
• a question we might ask our wife on the date: "how can i best show love to you?"
• another question that may spur converation: "how can i best show L.O.V.E. to you?" (Listen and understand, Offer help, Very thoughtful gifts, Express appreciation)

anyway, our group agreed to take on the challenge and take our spouses out on a date over the next 2 weeks and offer the opportunity to our wives to share with us possibly 1 maybe 2 things we could improve upon when it comes to us loving them as Christ loved the church (Eph 5).

wish us guys luck, cause we can be a little slow at "getting" what is being said and i know i especially can be a little argumentative.  so especially pray for erin as she deals with my limited attention span and whitty sense of humor ;)